| Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: How to Calm, Connect and Communicate with Your Baby | 
 enlarge | Author: Tracy Hogg
Publisher: Vermilion
Category: Book
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Avg. Customer Rating:  92 reviews
Sales Rank: 905
Media: Paperback
Pages: 304
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.8
Dimensions (in): 8.8 x 6 x 1
ISBN: 0091857023
Dewey Decimal Number: 618
EAN: 9780091857028
ASIN: 0091857023
Publication Date: January 25, 2001
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No-one ever said it would be E.A.S.Y.....o hang on, yes they did! October 14, 2008
If you had asked me to rate this book when my first son was a year old, they would have had to invent a new system. It was easily an eleven out of ten. He thrived on it, it worked, we all loved it.
Then my daughter came in to the world with a very different view of things and suddenly, my tried and tested E.A.S.Y. arsenal was laid to waste. She didnt sleep, she ate all the time, she cried and cried....where the pages telling you waht to do when you were so fatigued and cross with your newborn that you feared what you might do!?!
We were following the guidelines - we were doing the stuff - she just didnt like it, and I had neglected to take her opinions in to account!
In the end, I relaxed and gave myself a break - which is actually something Tracy Hogg recommends you do regularly, and I stopped trying to make my baby fit with something that had worked so well before.
I re-read it from a fresh perspective and once again, I found things that were useful. but with a more challenging baby, there are still some glaring ommissions. I wish Tracy would describe the crying that can go on as something more than "fussing".
When your baby can scream herself purple in under five minutes, and the only thing that works for both of you is a cuddle, then there is no mileage in continuing the crying. Continuing with a regime that isn't working for everybody is the stuff of nightmares.
There is definitely an argument for delaying some of the tactics used until you and your baby are ready, and not worrying about "bad habits". I wasted a lot of the first few months imaginging Tracy standing over me with a disapproving look as I guiltily administered the dummy or the breast to get my baby to sleep. She is now 6 months old and none of those props are required, so all of that stress was for nothing.
I would still recommend this book for the top tips on breastfeeding, and the common sense approach to most baby related problems. There are also some useful (if slightly American-ised) case studies.
I would just add the caveat that if your baby screams, you feel like tearing the book apart with your teeth and E.A.S.Y really doesn't seem to be working - its time to put the book down and accept that sometimes these formulaic approaches need a bit more flexibility. It does not mean your baby or you are broken, and eventually things will come together!
 Wet and impractical (especially for sleep problems) October 14, 2008
Brought this as a contrast to the Gina Ford "contented baby", which my wife and I found way too inflexible - but sadly it was far too much the other way.
In particular I would not recommend this book's approach to solving baby sleep problems, and in our case I am pretty sure it made things worse. For this usage I would very strongly instead recommend the much more authoritative and factually-based book by Dr Furber Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems - which sorted us out within a week.
 made me feel like the worst mother in the world. June 18, 2008
4 out of 5 found this review helpful
I bought this book, hoping to help me with my daughters sleeping, and routine. Instead it made me feel like the worst mother ever. I was trying to do things with her, that made no sense, kept trying to make her sleep all the time, when she shouldn't have been. Such a terrible book, don't buy it, it will confuse you, and make you feel rubbish!!!!!
Not sure where to start June 5, 2008
2 out of 2 found this review helpful
I think this would be an okay book if you felt that you have no idea how to take care of a baby. Like most parenting books. I picked it up after my baby was about 5 months old and found it useless, but I suppose if you had to it start with it might give you a couple of tips. My only advice would be to not take it as gospel and to pick and choose what you want to use and go by your own instinct.
 Brilliant book! May 25, 2008
I read this book when I had lots of time and was pregnant! It is a very good book and I would recommend it as I bought it off recommendation. I read Baby Whisperer along with Gina Fords Contented Little Baby and I must say that this book is more practical and works along side the baby rather then pushing the baby to do things it doesnt want to do! I still have this book by my bed!
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